Like everything, from proper penetration while wearing a condom to sticking a big penis up your ass, deep-throating is first and foremost a skill.
Instead of thinking of it as something you "can or can't do" or "should be able to do", think of it as "something I can practice and get better at over time".
There are many things you can use to practice and improve your deep-throating skills, from your fingers to bananas to your partner's penis - if, of course, he is willing to be patient and remain perfectly still and give you complete control while you get used to the sensations and movements.
However, in our opinion, the number one most effective tool for learning how to deep throat like a pro quickly and effectively is the humble dildo!
This informative article will first explain the basics of deepthroating and what to look for during the practice.
Then, we'll provide you with some specific tips focused around how to use the dildo to quickly become a deep throat expert.
With the help of this handy dandy guide, there's no doubt that you'll be able to provide your partner with sensual, erotic, orgasm-inducing oral sex experiences that he'll remember for the rest of his life!
Have you ever wanted to be able to deep throat your sexual partner - to bring him pleasure by getting his penis as far down your throat as possible, squeezing him to provide more pressure than he could even wildly imagine, having him cum directly down your throat, and being ecstatic as he fills your esophagus with his ecstatic penis?
We totally get it - deep-throating is a unique, intimate and incredibly sexual act that gives you tremendous control over your body and your partner's pleasure.
It's also an amazing way to demonstrate your love and desire for him by demonstrating exactly how much you're willing to do for his sexual enjoyment.
However, while deep-throating is also a sexual act, many people are afraid to try it because it makes them uncomfortable behind the scenes.
You may feel nervous, worrying about things like "what if I can't hold back the vomit," "what if I can't swallow," "what if I can't get my throat to relax enough," and so on. And so on.
You may have even heard that deep-throating is dangerous because it can choke or cut off your air supply during sex.
However, like almost every other kinky act performed in the bedroom, deep-throating is completely safe and should be maintained as long as proper precautions are taken before and during.
Establish a safe position, make sure he's clean and free of STDs, and check that any lubricants or other additives used are non-toxic and safe in the event of accidental ingestion.
What Is Deep Throating?
The term "deep throat" refers to a specific variation of the sexual act known as oral sex, in which the male penis is placed in the partner's mouth and stimulated through a combination of licking, sucking, kissing, humming and swallowing.
In particular, blowjobs become a deep-throating action when the head of the penis leaves the mouth (also known as the mouth) and enters the upper part of the penis around a tight ring of muscle called the "esophageal sphincter. Esophagus (also known as the throat).
Many men enjoy deep-throating because it allows them to experience a feeling of tightness and pressure that more standard oral sex simply cannot provide.
Most people have a very tight, narrow esophagus - usually only slightly larger than an inch - which squeezes the head and shaft of the penis in a way that is very pleasurable for many men.
In addition, deep-throating makes it easier for the person performing oral sex to take his partner's entire penis into his mouth, no matter how long or how long it is.
If you enjoy blowjobs but find it difficult to swallow your partner's semen due to the bitter, salty taste or uncomfortable texture, then deep-throating may actually be the reason you end up providing this service to him.
Because the semen shoots directly down his throat as he releases, it bypasses the mouth and tongue completely, meaning you don't have to taste it at all.
Also, once you feel its entrance, your throat reflexively swallows his load, which means your brain can't take over and let your nerves or worries get in the way of your ability to swallow.
Finally, because of the sense of control and intimacy associated with the act, many givers and receivers enjoy deep-throating.
Men love to watch their partners gag and drool around their cocks-it's easy to make even the most casual member feel big!
The giver knows they can provide their partner with an amazingly pleasurable experience like never before, and maybe even get rid of the sense of control and power over their own body, which becomes a profound experience the throat specialist lets them feel.
The mouth alone may be quite small and unable to fit a long 7, 8 or 10 inch penis completely inside, but with the extra space provided by the throat, the entire penis from tip to ball can be enveloped.
If you think that's more than enough, hold on to your hat, because deep throating offers even more advantages and opportunities for pleasure!
How Much Do You Know About Deep Throat With a Dildo
You may be surprised to find out how many parts of your anatomy are actually involved in the process of deep throat.
To explain things as best and as simply as possible, let's talk briefly about the real components of the mouth and throat: the oral cavity, or the mouth as it is known, is home to the tongue, teeth and gums.
The sphincter is a very strong and effective muscle that performs two important tasks: first, it prevents us from accidentally swallowing any food or other object that is too large to pass safely through the esophagus; and second, it keeps the digested food inside the esophagus. Unless it is absolutely necessary to release the stomach in case of illness.
Unfortunately, when you first try to deep throat, the esophageal sphincter may tighten and close because it interprets a large, thick penis as "something that shouldn't be there".
The first thing you need to do to be able to deep throat well is to learn how to properly relax your throat so that the sphincter doesn't tighten.
You don't need to worry about accidental contact with the trachea during deep throat - first, it's very narrow, and second, it's blocked by a flap of skin called the "epiglottis" that prevents food and other debris from getting stuck there.
However, if you are particularly worried, you can swallow several times before starting, as this will trigger the epiglottis to suddenly close and completely block the trachea. During deep throat, the esophagus is part of the laryngeal structure that the penis will penetrate.
Because the upper part of the esophagus begins to widen and then narrows significantly, there is no significant risk of choking or the penis becoming "stuck" in the throat as long as proper precautions are taken.
Perhaps the biggest obstacle to becoming an instant deep throat professional is the presence of the "esophageal sphincter," a tight ring of muscle located in the upper esophagus.
At the back of the mouth are the tonsils - unless, of course, you've had them surgically removed, as it's estimated that only about half of all people will have to do so at some point in their lives.
Just beyond the tonsils is a sharp descending curve that marks the official end of the mouth and the beginning of the throat.
However, what we know as the "throat" actually consists of two distinct tubes: the trachea, which carries air to the lungs, and the esophagus, which carries food and drink to the stomach and beyond.
This can be accomplished through deep breathing, regular swallowing, consistent mental encouragement of "mind over matter" - reminding yourself that this is what should happen and what you really want to do - and, of course, practice. -And, of course, practice.
In addition to relaxing your esophageal muscles, the second obstacle to deep-throating like a porn star is the gag reflex, which we'll discuss in more detail in the next section!
How to Choose the Best Dildos for your Deep Throat?
If you are the type of person who owns a lot of dildos, then you probably already have the perfect training dildo.
But if you're not afraid, you can always go to our catalog to see the different sizes, shapes and styles of dildos we sell.
However, one that is too large - especially some of the oversized "
fantasy dildo" models - can be uncomfortable when you start training and may not fit into a narrow esophagus.
(Also, starting with something huge can lead to freaking yourself out, and we want to keep you as calm and relaxed as possible throughout the experience.)
The perfect dildo for deep throat training is 8 to 10 inches long and 1 to 1.2 inches thick.
This is long enough to easily reach the top of your throat and narrow enough to enter your esophagus without any problems, while still being thick enough to force you to actively control and relax your esophageal sphincter.
The dildo you choose should also have a base that you can firmly grasp without having to worry about the toy slipping out of your hand and down deep into your throat.
When it comes to materials, we recommend using softer, more bendable materials rather than completely rigid ones.
This is because softer materials both better mimic the feel of an actual penis and can more easily fit through the bend between the mouth and the top of the throat.
Recommended materials include silicone and "jelly-like" elastomers, while unyielding materials, including glass, hard plastic and stainless steel, are generally not recommended.
Examples of good bases to use include those with a flared design, rings, suction cups or a pair of simulated testicles or "balls" that you can comfortably hold in your hand.
As with any dildo, you should make sure you have properly cleaned your deep throat training tool before you start working.
Whether you choose to use lube during training (or when you actually start deep-throating your partner's cock) is entirely up to you.
We guarantee that our RealDildos store will have what you want! And of course, we are always available to answer any questions our customers may have about choosing a dildo, so don't be afraid to contact us if you need help with your dildo selection.
Not just any dildo is suitable for deep throat training. A dildo that is too small will not reach your throat and will not help you overcome your gag reflex.
Never use a condom while practicing deep throat, whether with a
soft dildo or a flesh-and-blood penis. Condoms, even if they are the perfect size, can slip off accidentally during vigorous oral sex
If this happens when you deep throat your man, the condom may get stuck so far down your throat that you can't safely remove it and there is a serious risk of choking.
Even if you manage to swallow it, it will stay in your body and take a long time to break down, which may not make you feel as good.
Some people find that lube helps them stay more relaxed and confident during a performance, while others find it more of a distraction.
Lube, especially tasty lube, can be an erotic addition to deep-throating, but it's usually not necessary - the amount of saliva produced by the mouth and upper esophagus is almost always enough to keep his penis thoroughly soaked.
So, use lube if you wish, or don't - it's entirely up to you! Just be sure to check that your lube is safe for human consumption before slathering the dildo in it, because you'll accidentally swallow some during the deep-throating exercise and you don't want to cause any harm to your body.
If you're worried about sexually transmitted diseases, have you and your partner tested before trying deep throat, as this is one example of how wearing a condom can actually make sex more unsafe, not safer!
How to Deep Throat With a Dildo
Many men have never experienced any deep throating in their lives. Even if you can only perform a few in-and-out motions when you try, your man will appreciate it. But if you want to take it to the next level, you can try some super powerful techniques.
Lick his balls - If you're on your knees and he's standing and you deep throat him like you're in a kneeling blow job position, then you're in the perfect place to stick your tongue outward and start licking his balls. The key is to keep him buried deep in your throat while you do this, and he will neither go in nor out.
Your hands - When you deep throat your man, your hands will be free. You can put them on his legs and stomach to control how fast you take him down your throat, or you can reach for them, grab his ass, and pull him deeper.
Most guys never even think about this, so be prepared to have a happy man in your hands when you do this.
Head Cramps - An advanced and difficult technique to master is to use your throat contractions to your advantage. When you vomit, your throat will naturally tighten as your pharyngeal muscles contract. This contraction may be uncomfortable for you, but if your man is in your throat, then the contractions and spasms they make will be incredible for him.
If you have significant control over your throat spasms, then you can let your throat spasm slightly while he is inside you. However, if you find that you simply cannot control the throat spasms, then I would not recommend that you try this technique. When you gag, you may accidentally bite into ...... this could lead you to the emergency room ...... no one wants that.
Humming - Another simple but powerful technique that you should try at least once when your man is humming deep in your throat (so don't thrust in and out). While it may not make him shoot his load, the vibrations provide a powerful sense of satisfaction, especially when he reaches orgasm.
Tips of Using Dildos for Deep Throat
Before we get started, we would like to share some more tips with you. We hope these tips will prove useful in making each deep throat experience safe for you and as much fun as possible for your partner.
When you remove the dildo or your partner's penis from your mouth during deep throat, you may notice that it has been covered with a sticky fluid. This fluid is usually clear like saliva, but is much thicker and ultimately more similar to snot.
Don't worry! This is completely normal! This sticky fluid is a mucus produced by the lining of the throat. It actually makes deep-throating more enjoyable for the recipient because it covers his penis and keeps the esophageal passage completely smooth so that his penis can slide in and out with ease.
Keep in mind that while some of these strategies may work for you, the only guaranteed way to permanently prevent the gag reflex from tripping you up is to repeat and practice.
If you're comfortable moving your tongue without triggering the gag reflex, you can use it to slowly lick the base of his penis or even extend it to try to caress his testicles.
However, here are some tips that may work for you: Keep your tongue low and flat in your mouth, make an "aha" sound, or hold your hand tightly around your thumb, which may help avoid those pesky gags. Practice session.
With that in mind, one strategy we definitely don't recommend is using any type of throat
While deep-throating can be a lot of fun for your partner, even if you're completely still and doing nothing, just because your esophagus is tight around his penis, that doesn't mean you can't also add some extra tips and tricks to increase his pleasure even further!
Plus, many men really enjoy the fact that when you slide his cock out of your mouth, a thick stream of saliva still connects his tip to your lips. So don't worry about being wet! Embrace it! Oddly enough, your partner finds it more than sexy!
Again, every little bit of extra effort you put in adds to his pleasure and yours!
Other deep-throating guides may list a seemingly endless list of "foolproof strategies" to prevent your gag reflex from engaging.
For example, try humming or making a low-pitched "ahh" sound while his cock is in your throat. The vibrations will definitely drive him crazy and rock his world!
Also, don't forget your hands and tongue in all of this! Your hand can stroke his balls or the root of his cock, especially if you can't get him all the way in your mouth because he's so big.
